It is important to lose the boundary between you and others, to the extent to feel we become one with others - "oneness" -
   It is not a matter of trying to control others by centering yourself, but rather by combining the weight of two partners into one unique center of gravity at the minute when they come in contact or interact with each other.
   We must reverse our mental consciousness.
   I would say that "Aikido" is the world of "kotsu" - trick or proper small way of doing things that make all the difference -